"Become a Coffee Drinker" and Other Wisdom from Veteran Homeschoolers

Some of the best advice about home schooling comes from other homeschoolers. So with little or no editing, we offer you insights shared on our Facebook page when we asked veteran homeschoolers, “What advice do you have for families just beginning the homeschool journey?”

Practical advice is best, so remember, “Let go of perfection.” (Becca) and “become a coffee drinker!” (Susan) “It's a marathon, not a sprint. Take one day and one year at a time.” (Kim)

As a reminder of Galatians 6, Sue says “Just remember you always reap what you sow. Sow kindness, goodness, a good work ethic, love for God and their family, God’s Word, lots of smiles and hugs into your children and you will reap these things from your children. Homeschooling your children will be one of the hardest most rewarding adventures you will experience. Don't quit on the hard days, and there will be hard days. The good days will definitely out number the hard days if you don't quit!”

Heidi reminds us “What God has called to you to, He will take you through. If you know in your heart that God has called your family to homeschool, then there is also an answer for each problem you'll face. Crying is okay. There are usually tears and plenty of them when a family takes their kids from public school and begins their home journey. It's a different life style and it can be painful, but oh so worth it. Take a breath and enjoy the journey. You will enjoy beautiful moments in every single day.”

Carolyn looks back, “The days may be long, but the years are short...  Some days that you will wonder what under the sun you are doing, but when you look back it is worth every minute.”

And Jackie agrees, “You will have days of joy, days of frustration and maybe even tears, days of questioning your call to homeschool. It takes time to work out all the kinks and find a good routine and even that will change. But NEVER quit. You will do anything to protect your children. This is one of them. Homeschool.”

And as a reminder from 2nd Corinthians 2:12, Melanie tells us, “Don't compare your family to other families and don't feel obliged to do what they do.”

Parents often get tied up in knots because they don’t think they know what they’re doing – as  Luke reminded us, “The will of God will never lead us where the grace of God cannot keep us.” And Sue echoes, “Have fun! Don't stress. It all works out in the end. Relationships before academics!”  Kris chimes in, “Don't get stressed. Keep the Lord as your focus and everything will stay in perceptive.” Sherrill agrees, “One day at a time. Don't stress.”

We know God’s perspective. He says seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added unto you. So Zachary sums it up this way, “Schooling isn't all bookwork. Sometimes it's more important what you learn away from the textbooks.”

Do you have any words of wisdom to add that will help families just getting started homeschooling? Leave your comment below.

Dick Karman wove all the great advice together. Dick is chairman of the board of OCEANetwork. He and his wife, Dorothy, homeschooled their children through graduation and came to realize that the process of discipling your children lasts a lifetime.


Posted by Dorothy Karman on Sep 14, 2012 at 10:18 AM | Categories: Beginning the year - Encouragement -


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